Saturday, 31 January 2015

a million times better than graffiti on the front door……

Blog 2 / January 2015


It is fair to say that January has lived up to its reputation of being the worst month of the year. We are still feeling the emptiness of losing a friend and on top of that the wind has howled and the rain has poured and it is cold and utterly miserable.  We do however have to count our blessings and although the house is draped in grey hues at least the upstairs windows are standing up to this wretched weather and the ducks in their unseen wisdom actually don’t give a hoot, or even a quack.
 
Our beige headed female duck finally found her voice and is enjoying the freedom of expression at six in the morning  and one of them has, today,  given us the gift of an egg which I have already put in the mix for sponge cake which is delicious.  You will see that the daffodils have baggsed their position for this year, and just that alone brings a tinge of good cheer and optimism for warmer brighter days ahead
 
Mike has thrown himself in the not very necessary, but fun project of boxing in the Gym area in the barn. My lame excuse for not using the gym for the past 2 years has been that it is cold in the winter and dirty after a wind storm as a 100 years of dust plummets to the floor and there is need to vacuum clean before you even start with an exercise session. The Box is built like a second home and will give us a very plausible spare work room should we decide that actually we are not gym people after all.
 


 
 
Two weeks on and the second hand set of internal doors we bought for our Bar in Watten 9 years ago have at last found a home. Three sets of windows we picked up for nothing to repair our potting shed have also been used to make a wall of glass.  Mike has been truffling through his stocks and has been able to build and apply elements of bodge in the most professional and satisfying way. We have had to do this job together because it is a design as you build project and every application seems to have three options and we set up the boardroom table and agree with a solution before moving on. It is very satisfying but I might just like to add very cold and when I excuse myself at  five o’clock to light the fire and start on dinner I am very pleased to be coming back to the house.
 
 
 
It is hard to believe we had 25 people sat at table up here in July for our 60th birthday party, it seems like an age ago but the fun and joy of having our family and friends around us is still ringing in the rafters…..so much better than hanging from them at this dull time of year
 
 
 
The grass is trying to express itself and wants to be abandoned and unruly and we are going to let it go on for a little longer. I wish with all my heart I could take the tractor out and top it off but Mike sensibly tells me that it will recover and by June we will be wondering what the fuss was all about
 

 
This is July last year, family, friends,  campers and a lot of fun and laughter makes all the difference
 
We had a very unwelcome visitor and his family come to munch and poo in our garden this week. I had a bit of a shock when I skipped into the garden to give HOSS his happy 15 minutes to find we had squatters with attitude, and this boy was asking me who I thought I was coming into  his garden!!
 
 
 This is the third time that we have had escapees from the next field and I know not to go near them and just rushed for my camera. I took a stance with legs apart, hands on hips and gave them a dirty look which eventually convinced them that Madame was not happy and they strolled back through the hole in the fence they had so carefully made to make their great escape. Mike came out with a mend fence kit and we knitted a convincing string and wire fortification in the hope that the cows will take the hint. They stood on the other side watching us and we swore a bit and made it clear that they were not the sort of neighbours we normally mix with. It is true that these animals are wonderful in their own right but they weigh a ton and the lawn is now pitted with hoof sized holes about 6 inches deep and we will not really know the extent of the damage until we cut……put your earplugs in, I know a gardener who is not going to be very polite and British stiff upper lip about it when the facts are out.
On Christmas day I called my French friend Genevieve who lives in the village and apologised for being such a rotten friend. Since I had to give up choir due to my  hearing loss  I have not really spoken to her, and we used to meet every week put the world to rights on the way to practice, have  a good old sing song, and do it  all over again on the way home. I therefore promised to visit her every week on Wednesday at 4 o’clock and all this month I have been taking the walk up to her house and we sit for an hour chatting about whatever comes into our heads. I have learnt more about my neighbour across the road in a month of chatting to Genevieve than we have living opposite him these last four 4 years. This week I told her about the cows in the garden and she truly went into one and said I was to go straight to the Maire of Brevands and tell him. This is obviously the way to deal with a dodgy French farmer who according to Geneviève is a loose cannon in farming circles and needs pulling to one side for a Marie type scalding. I did try to calm her and felt I needed to explain that we understand we live in the country,
 and it is a million times better than graffiti on the front door……
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 

Sunday, 18 January 2015

left in the gardens as rustic decoration…

Blog 1 / Jan 2015



Our New Year started like any other and friends Trevor and Carol invited us around for the final roast, the final big desert, the last of too much wine and a chance to enjoy the last of the Christmas decorations. The evening was full of games and fun and as always it ends up girls verses boys and inevitably becomes a race to the finish in true girly style with plenty of screaming and banter










Mike and I tried to get back into normal eating after that Sunday fun in Trev's bar but failed and promised ourselves to empty the fridge and talked of building a box around  the gym in the barn so that we have a good place to exercise every day,  but in our not sure what -to -do -next mood decided to concentrate on replacing the lounge floor but news that we have two set of friends visiting from the UK  in March gave us permission  to put that project on hold until the weather warms up . The New Year weather has been appalling and it has not stopped raining so far, so the get-your-pecker-up jobs like cutting a tree down or digging over a raised bed are not possible.


 I have been making progress on my digital pics to prints project and have now completed up to 2005. 2006 is in the post and I have just downloaded 2007.  The process is simple, open up the cd with all the digital pictures we have taken and choose a selection to tell the story of that year.  Using hindsight it has become a lovely trip down memory lane and I have been able to be specific about what is important in terms of achievement and occasion.  The plan is that I complete a year a month and that will get me up to 2014 in time to put 2015 to print and I will have a complete set of proper albums of our life since the day we met in 1970.


 Mike has had our trusted trailer in the garage drying out waiting for a coat of paint and with the cold weather grappling over the horizon I suggested that perhaps it would be better to have  Beryl our  yellow soft top in the garage in case it does snow and that prompted the paint job and although  Mike had anticipated  upgrading  the electrics and replacing the side panels this will be enough for the old trailer, that owes us nothing, to see the winter through in battle ship grey fighting off the effects of rain and snow….should it come.






2015 took an unbelievable downturn with a Saturday morning phone call from our friend Ray to say that his wife Marianne had passed away the night before.  The shock and horror of such news puts life on a different schedule and our hearts are broken at the loss of a dear and close friend.  Marianne and Ray have been to all of our parties in Brevands in the past five years and we have spent many suppertime hours just us four chewing the cud and putting the world to rights.  We  were, however, mostly discussing the French way of doing things as we have all of us felt the full strength of French bureaucracy and  logic and to have an equally balanced debate  where we were able to placate and admonish all at the same time, made  for a good night in around the table.

 It takes less than a week for a funeral to take place in France and we gathered  with Ray and his two sons in a packed crematorium to say au revoir to Marianne, with heavy hearts and fond memories of a smile we will never forget.

The days go by and Marianne and Ray are in our thoughts, her, for leaving us all too soon, and him, support to continue a life here with us in France.
 
 
 
 
To show us that life must go on, can I be the first to say that I have daffodils in my garden in the middle of January. We always laugh about the silly seasons we have seen pass by and I have a very lovely memory of showing Marianne my gladioli growing at the front gate in October last year.
 

So the new year begins, with many projects on the to-do list and many hopes of a good and satisfying year for all our friends here in France sharing our lives
 
I am still hoping to have a little cottage industry selling my cushions but sadly the French Post office have changed the tariffs and made it that a  20 Euro cushion will now cost  85 Euro to post  outside of France and 30 Euro  inland. It has therefore prompted a time of re-invent and re-evaluation as to how I continue. It is a good job we were looking at this pastime as a nice thing to do and eating less cheese and drinking less red wine would balance the books just as well.  We do also need to remember where we are and enjoy what is around us at a price we can afford. That is one thing we have become quite good at,  so instead of the central heating on, the fire is roaring and we will now contemplate bringing in the wood we have cut this year and left in the gardens as rustic decoration…