Tuesday, 25 August 2015

a glass of rose instead of a pint of bitter.

 
Blog 21 / August  2015
 


The Canadian parcel arrived and the clothes I made for the kids so many miles away from them, fitted OK, although Alex looks a little restricted in his waistcoat, so Nona will try harder next time. I am still in the motions of documenting our trip to Canada, the pictures and notes all set out in word only the padding to write up and the event will be there for us to remember for ever.
 
 
 
 
Oh, the joys of babies, Graham and Ann had their granddaughter come and visit for a few days so we took the opportunity to get together, as we do every week and got to know her a little better.  I was offered a cuddle and took up the challenge, like a well-oiled Nona should, although it is true to say that it has been a few years since we have been in the company of one, so young.
 
Mike and I popped into the tourist office to buy some post cards of Carentan and we came across this little exhibition of photographs of traditional Normandy buildings in our area. They boasted about the construction of Mass houses since year dot and how it is now so important to keep these pockets of history in good condition, alive and well.  We went around the expo reading up all the notes and information and became aware  that we actually live in a house like these and it was probably about time we got the ground floor windows painted so we could say, we are making  the effort to keep ours in good nick…..ooops
Mike was busy doing his daily duty checking the water quality in the swimming pool in case we need a dip in an emergency, and that does happen…then Mike came across this little fella. Now you may think this is normal …. Newt near water ….  but we could not imagine how he managed to clamber up four feet of plastic sides then over the blow up collar so we can only surmise that he was dropped in by a bird and therefore mike was holding its life in his hands…we found a nice wet place in the pond area to give him another go at life, and wished him good luck …
We decided to close the mobile homes early as the demand was slow and people seemed only to want accommodation for 4 nights and less and then wanted to turn up, tonight! This gives us an extra work load and commitment to have to stay at home so we pulled the plug hoping that next year our French holiday makers will be in a better position to commit at least a week in advance so that we do not have to arrange our lives around a B&B, just-turn-up style of business. We set off to St Malo for a 3 night break in the Camping Municipal and set up camp ready to investigate and enjoy
 
 
 
We walked for hours and both felt the impact, Mike especially, but we ventured into St Malo both days and did all the touristy stuff.
 
 
It occurred to us that we keep running into World War 2 events and I went on the lookout for photos of St Malo just after the war as 80% of the city was destroyed. The city was rebuilt in the traditional style though not in traditional materials and if you look hard enough you get a sense of how modern it actually is. I was therefore quite keen to find a source in the city where we could grasp the enormity of the task but sadly we found nothing. The museum of history never mentioned it and although this WW2 museum at the back of the camp site spoke about the great battle that took place here, there was no real information about the reconstruction of an ancient city…..is it perhaps because they don’t want tourists to know that the buildings are actually only 60 years old….I don’t know, but I was disappointed. I have found some pictures since, on line, but that does not count…..
But then, you climb to the highest point, a little huffy and puffy and realise that there is enough to feed the historic appetite and Mike and I spent time on this view discussing the day we sailed here in Beema. We talked our way in through the buoyage system and how we felt about this quite difficult Port entrance. Do we miss Beema ?….yes, I guess on a day like that looking out at sea we do miss the concentration of all that skill and knowledge we had built up during our sailing years together.
 
We treated ourselves to Moules frites on a restaurant pavement at a formule price and had a jolly hour and a half people watching and listening to the buskers playing in the street. We looked each other in the eyes to confirm how great it  feels having all of this, just down the road.
 
 
Then back to the camper to prepare a meal on our trusted bucket BBQ that we took with us in our tiny Vdub camper for our long leave trip to Italy in 2004.  HOSS looks on in expectation that a titbit will come his way as this is his holiday as well and I can assure you he did join in with us and enjoy the feast. HOSS is now 9 years old and is a very seasoned camper holiday maker. When he was a puppy we were preparing for a time away in our previous camper and I took this picture of HOSS collecting all his toys and putting them on the step so we did not leave them behind.
 
 
 
To this very day camper preparations are closely scrutinised and HOSS is always well placed at the correct door just at the right time to make sure we don’t leave him behind
 
 
Our second days walk into the city took us past this vista which frankly just made me chuckle as it looked like the ferry had got lost and found a slot in the marina and  we know how it feels to  arrive here and the marina to say,  sorry mate, no moorings available, but that is another tale to tell…. I was also reminded of the sight of huge cruiser ships going through Venice and in this beautiful warm sunshine it nearly felt like Venice….
 
After four days away we were delighted to see on our return that the pond had found it’s balance and the fish were visible and looking very happy. The lily pads have been eaten away by the ducks and I don’t know why we didn’t think they would ignore them but we have a plan to make them duck proof and will instigate that next week, but the fish are a great success.
 
 
Whist on the subject of fish we got a call to get Mike’s tackle out and get down to the carp lake in Perier for an inter friends carp fishing  competition. We turned up to find that we were 8 contestants although the  ladies in the group decided to sit back and chat our way to catch the largest carp. Shirley however, is the best lady fisherman I know and did not disappoint by landing an 18 pounder within 30 minutes of the starting hooter
 
Mike sat patiently in his little swim but by 9:30 in the evening he had not even had a nibble and with the other competitors long gone home to their evening meals the four of us saw the contest to its bitter end.  Mark did have a bite but could not get to the rod quick enough and as the fish took flight the rod slipped into the depth of the lake never to be seen again. We had a great afternoon in great company and hope to do it again very soon.
 
 
We have discovered that if you make the effort and go out to the free concerts in our local churches, there is a fantastic night out to be had.   We went to Fresville for a concert of varied music with flutes, strings and piano and the voice of a very impressive lady singing Shakespeare style sonnets which set the hairs on the back of my neck up right. A violin solo with this small orchestra was so well played and touching that it left me in tears as this ensemble of wonderful musicians shared their skills for us with no fuss or showmanship just accomplished talent and savoir faires.
There was a 10 minuet break in the programme and we took the opportunity to walk around this lovely little village church building and Shirley who works in the antiques business was considering how we could get this confessional box into her handbag to put in the corner of her lounge.  It was a lovely bit of furniture that we might just  walk past and not take too much notice,  but being out with people who see these things  opens your eyes  to other things and  makes a night out  great  fun  and interesting. At the end of the concert we all tumbled out into the village square and the chaps made the point that a local pub would have closed the evening perfectly. Do we miss not having a good pub to visit, yes we all do. We met up the next day for Moules frites at the end of a mornings rummaging at the Port bail vide grenier, so the concert review was considered over a glass of rose instead of a pint of bitter.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Saturday, 8 August 2015

so long may it continue……





Blog 20 /  August



The year before we set sail for France to start our new life, Georgina and Alan tied the knot and became ‘The Joiner family’, and it is really hard to imagine where those ten years have gone.   This picture taken on 6 August 2005 is probably one of the last times we were all together as a family before we left.  The Joiners are now in Canada making their way through the colourful tapestry of parenthood and Deb and Jez are in Australia. We are all living as expats finding our way in a foreign land and I think we are making a pretty good job of it.  Chris has his roots in the UK so we are able to see him more often and he is a frequent skyper so we get lots of good and funny news from back home.  We often have the discussion with our friends here in France as to how we have all managed to live with  the heart ache of not having our children in our back yards but it is a factor we have all  taken into account as we develop our lives facing our retirement years and old age.
 
Although the white van is definitely surplice to requirements and is for sale we still managed to find a very good use for it and loaded up with a sauna we bought off le bon coin.  I have been bleating about having a sauna of my very own for many years but it is never the right time or we do not have the right place, and this week Mike found the exact sauna to fit the exact space at a very good price so we bit the bullet.  The people we bought from were well to do, modern and confident folk with all white indoor dĂ©cor and a dug in swimming pool in the garden.  They dismantled the cabin and when we went to pick it up were really excited to hear about our life and we ended up having a drink with them before we left with our bootie. It is only because we outwardly embrace le bon coin that we are able to have what we want at the price we can afford and the up side is that we meet very nice people on the way
This nearly new two man sauna is now in the gym and we are absolutely delighted with it. There is a music centre and a DVD player so you can sit and watch a film but I am not sure if that is really going to scratch my back as I am enjoying the soothing music and the feeling of total relaxation. Whilst the pool is useable we have been doing a 30 minute sweat in the cabin and then a 30 minute swim and I feel we are living a totally different life from that we set out having nine years ago.
 
 
 
 
 
Mike found an ad on Anglo Info offering free pond fish for anyone willing to come and get them. We jumped at the opportunity to concentrate on the pond, and fish seemed like a good place to start this new project. We were delighted to meet George and Andy who seriously put themselves out to help Mike gather as many fish as possible and we ended up with over 100 of all sizes. You might think that fish are just fish but they really know how to hide under the lily pad and make themselves unseen, so we have left an open ended agreement that if they find any more then we will get over to bring them home to join their pals.
 
 
I mentioned to George that I might like to take a cutting from their very impressive lily pad  on  the pond that we were plundering and when we went back to collect our second batch of fish, a quarter of the plant had been dragged out for us to bring home. Mike looks like he has a halo and I am sure he deserves it for all the work he has done this week.
 
 
 
 
We threw all the bits of lily in the pond and then came in to search the internet for the easiest way to set these plants into our pond.  We made our to-do list and shopping list and gathered all we needed to separate and replant these plants so that next year they will be comfortable enough to make a good show for us…..that is of cause, all a bit dependant on whether the ducks decide to  leave them alone. Early signs are not good as the girl ducks  were all around the pot with the left overs in having a bit of a feast, so we are now thinking about how we make lily pads ugly and not very appetising.
 
 
 
And finally we had the pleasure of joining Trevor and Carol to celebrate their visiting daughter’s 30 birthday. Mike made a scary comment that he was 31 when Shelly was born but we still managed to keep up with the best of them and were the last to leave the party.  We kept up with the fabulous youth around us with little children playing and their energetic parents all enjoying their holidays at Mum and Dads place…….  The weather has been very kind this year and we have managed many lovely garden parties long into the night…  
so long may it continue……
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 

Monday, 3 August 2015

pretty, easy, as well as very loveable.



 

Blog 19 / August 2015


There is nothing better than a bit of Glad’ to make your day, and I am delighted to have a whole row of them showing off and being beautiful. Mike bought a bag of mixed gladioli in the autumn and I plucked up the courage in spring to dig and plant and I moaned and groaned at the time, but today I am full of joy….




 
 
I haven’t mentioned Cat lately so I thought I would give her a little bit of column space and here she is on her daily walk out with us. She is well and keeping the mouse population under control ducking and diving and being clever.
 
 
 
Here is  Deb in 2008 on one of her last visits before moving  to Australia with her family  and by chance out of the kindle of Kittens that we were watching develop,  Deb was pictured with the kitten we decided to keep and named Cat.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
The grass is looking good and I am able to get on with the weekly mow on our new and shiny mower. I can get around the lawns in 3 hours without Mike needing to worry about having to join in, but sadly, the way my mower empties the cuttings it means that I am encroaching onto the garden and as you can see it is becoming a problem. We have a plan to purchase a mini digger to be able to push this cuttings-pile back but the plan is long term so in the meantime Mike has welded a pair of runners onto his grader blade and hey presto we have a cuttings-pile pusher…..it is not as good as we would like but it is good enough for now. Roll on mini digger purchase  as I have a list of projects to be getting on with……
 
Every week I visit Geneviève in the village and we talk in French about things ladies like to talk about….what the neighbours are up to, how France is being governed and what to do with a certain veg or cut of meat.  She loves to hear about our life in her country and I have taken the opportunity to get my facts right on issues about how to be French in the best of British ways we can manage. Geneviève and Jeanmarie live in a very little bungalow which was once the village bakery and they have a simple and uncomplicated life which in many ways we envy and enjoy hearing about. I took HOSS up for a walk and hoped he would get on OK with their dog and I was not disappointed as they played and shared their afternoon snack with only a little growl between them
 
 
 
I am back in the sewing room once a week and have had to rethink my cushion project. The French postal system fell in line with the UK in January and have limited the size of package you can send letter post. A cushion to USA changed from 15 Euro to 80 euro and made my desire to send the customer the complete product a little prohibitive. I have now decided to go back and remake the inner cushion so that it can be filled and closed at customer end…..not what I had wanted to offer, but needs must.
 
Whilst I was in the swing of sewing I fulfilled my promise to make Victoria another frock and just for good measure I made Alex a waistcoat. All well and good, but once I had put these in the post to Georgina in Canada she sent me current pictures of the children and I fear that in the 2 months that have passed since our visit, the kids will have grown out of these little works of Art ……oh well the dress will be a top and the waist coat will fit a teddy bear… to be sure
 
 



 

 
 
 
 
 
 








We were confident that the weather forecast was going to be truthful for a change and on Thursday I sent out invites for a Boule contest in the garden for Friday, bring a picnic, and let’s play………
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 








 
After lunch we played each other, then the losers played each other, then the winners played each other and all afternoon there were ooohhs and ahhs and we had a very enjoyable time. We did realised however, that we were all pretty bad  at the game and should now do more practising and respect the national game and become more proficient.






 
 
 
We had a winner, and because by chance it became a family competition,   Mrs Scrivens beat Mr Scrivens and whilst clutching her goblet of honour she said,  looser, and the picture was taken for us to enjoy that moment for ever and ever….. We ate strawberries and cream to celebrate the victory and generally had a very happy afternoon in the garden. It is so good to make good use of this space we spend so much time getting to look like it does. The echo of laughter and good fun is so very important to Mike and me. Having people come to stay in our mobile homes means the garden is seen and appreciated and as the French are generally not very 'grand ideas' for gardens ours never fails to impress……and I like that.
 
 
A vide Grenier in Carentan took us for a morning out and about, and we saw this carriage  for 200 euros and for a micro moment I saw Mike eyeing it up and taking mental measurements for his trailer. We walked by without a word to each other, as I know, and Mike knows, I would say No.  We bumped into friends going through the exact same thought pattern so we all ended up at the cafĂ© drinking coffee before we caused any more damage to our wallets.
 
 
We sat out in the morning sunshine and put the world to rights, watching the world go by. Mark had spotted a boxed train set on the stall across the road and got up and purchased it without  a bye of leave, he is a very proud granddad  and can’t wait for his kids to turn up for a visit
 
 
 
 
The local firemen drove their fire engine past us just to make sure they could get though if they needed to.  Every time there is a street event in Carentan the firemen drive their machine at walking pace and we can only imagine that is why they do it, but perhaps it is to give us a treat and for us all to marvel at their uniforms and their savoir faire…..…. either way it is not a problem as I like fire engines and so do all the kids waving and pointing at the big red engine xx
 
 
The Pond project is coming to fruition at last.   We have dragged out buckets of decayed willow and straw and although we still had a sludgy bloom on the surface the men ducks were less reluctant to go for a swim. The whole area has started to smell better and on a good day even looks a lot better as well.  I have spent quite a few hours dragging and netting to get us ready to add the barley straw and hope that this will clean the algae off and get us back to a clean and adorable pond
 
 
 
Napoleon is still well and is strutting his stuff keeping our mobile home customers awake at dawn.  A couple of days ago we watched him make eyes at one of our blokey ducks. We witnessed the whole, I love you, dance as he dropped his wings and shook his back end and danced around the bewildered duck, and then it was all over.  We were reminded that the swan took to courting the ducks once a year and have concluded that ducks must be pretty, easy, as well as very loveable.